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I am so old school I think when I am in a relationship that another woman comes into That relationship. The whole "I am going off to..." I do not get. When I see all the 'growing pains' and the 'Bob is still struggling with the fact that I could give a flying fuck how he feels because I want...

thunks I have actually had this come up more than a few times and 2 of them was a single patron, travelling alone. One had a MediAlert Bracelet. The other one had a heart attack! Both survived. I am still not sure how keeping something like diabetes or a life threatening allergy "not public...

threat? I did not get a threat at all. V seemed to think he was saying "family".

Yes, hide being diabetic That way when you slip into a diabetic coma you will have an increased chance of dying. Ah the eternal shame of having a condition. I have a sister who is diabetic, so I learned a fair amount. A few years ago, a woman suddenly passed out in a restaurant. I saw her eyes...

her reaction I would say her reaction is a bit of guilt and her being disappointed with her own behavior. Much easier to lash out at someone else. When I was younger, dinosaurs roaming, I would have a similar situation, but be the one covered in another's smell. Raised on that White Charger...

This is not every friend, this is every person in the known universe, and when you ask them, ask them if they know anyone they think might be able to help. I do not know what I wrote and no time to go back so briefly. I was hired by the SBA(Small Biz Admin) to help women start or improve small...

Ah yes, everyone get perfectly healthy before you.... I do not believe in accidents, especially one that have friendships that are +20 years in length. I have worked as a psychotherapist for decades. I rarely recommend walking away because I feel life is lessons and learning to deal with...

Or you could go with the old NY saying, "It ain't over, til its over." So recap in my book: B, straight except.... W, bi and open, except.... You making soap and wondering WTF was That?!?! While the boys seem to still be talking about it. So, yeah maybe it is over. I mean if it is up to the...

Sounds like Hormone Derange A few red flags went up. She only allows the father of the first child to see that child 2 nights a month. <That looks like a potential control/punishment play) She identified as a Lesbian, but now bi, now mono but not celibate, starts a relationship with a Married...

I am wondering what pseudo-poly means. I do not know what resources are like in the NYC area anymore, but seems like given you suffer from depression that being able to talk to a therapist might be a place for you to start this sorting of feelings and confusion out. It has been so long since I...

Wadaya mean I went missing? I can imagine the collective breathed a sigh of relief. Doc

Frog I think after ten years, I conclude I am a frog in the turtle pond. I am the sound of one hand laughing. Exit is stage left, but my left or your?

If only I could get the top on this box I find people seem to come with dogs, cats, clothes, jobs, families and while I can have this fantasy about boundaries, the dogs and cats especially keep jumping the fence. Have you ever asked the question, "Beyond my leaving, what can I do to make you...

God is the universe God is always acting on us from the solar winds to where we are headed in the center of our galaxy. The creation of all matter out of the Big Bang causes the very perfect combination of elements and condition for life to be born. See Nick Lane's Life Ascending: the ten...

The gifts I've been given When I was five my father explained for the first of many times the only thing I really had in life was My Word, the promises I give and everything else was a gift, from the air we breathe to the food we eat, friends, family, jobs money and even the lessons. In my...

in relationship there is for me a difference in Giving of anything without expectation and "being in relationship" If I am walking down the street, see a person think they placed something in their bag, but really it ended up falling on the ground, I go pick it up and give it to them, I never...

Hey! Wait just a minute now. Chocolate bunnies!?! I thought the priests had the "yes Johnny, you are eating the body of Christ!" Or are we talking about African American priests?

I have seen people believe they are cured, or believed in a doctor who did nothing be cured. Science? Which scientist? I will bet without google you cannot name 10 physicists, nor ten chemists, nor ten of any discipline. The doctor who decided fat makes you fat (totally wrong) could supply you...

I'm sure I have told this story, but let me give you the reader's digest slightly expanded version of my life. When I was 4 I ran away from home. I was going to join the Mob in Chicago, because I was sure their mothers did not tell them what to do. My mother helped me pack my bag. I got to...

I think as a father, I would want to know. He knows you are gay and this looks like it is likely going to be a longterm stable relationship. He might be traditional, but he likely is also a practical man. I "dated" after my wife died, but it was specifically looking for wife, thinking my...