She isn't leaving just yet. She needs to see a therapist alone.
She said she wasn’t leaving him several times. She also said she was not financially in a position to leave just yet, but was saving up money in case. The binge drinking has been a challenge for a yr. He needs therapy and may just...
Here is my update on my situation for those who helped me.
Thank you to all who helped me. Even though I don't get sex at home. He warmed up/ accepted me getting sex outside the M. I now get sex and intimacy once a week on average. I don't have to pretend that I don't need sex and intimacy...
Thinking outside the box
What are her choices that would empower her and put her in a position of maybe salvaging her R?
Did you ever notice a couple who was having an affair in your office? This NRE or new relationship energy is very hard to hide from others. (oxytocin high./ adrenalin...
I am also in a sexless M and get my intimacy/sex from MM
Yikes, Your story runs parallel with some of us.
You can read up on this thread.
http://www.polyamory.sbs/forum/showthread.php?t=36166
I have an update. H took a dive then pulled out of it. Has been very loving lately.
Sounds like you...
Update?!?
Do you have an update for us? :)
Did you guys get the audio for "How to Light Her Fire? It is a great start to passion and excitement in the bedroom.
So now you have techniques to teach us...? :D ? even just something simple that she likes.
good luck
Now it is her turn...to turn you on!
Tell her to get the book or audio by Ellen Kriedman -Light His Fire
you get the same book/audio Light her Fire
order it here
http://www.abebooks.com/servlet/SearchResults?kn=how+to+light+his+fire&sts=t&x=-800&y=-95
What she is experiencing has little to...
toys
are you open to toys? There are different toys that produce different sensations. If you focus on many sensations for him/her it is very hard to go wrong.
I am not much for dominant pain, but I love different sensations. I love a sensual dom. I also love to deliver many sensations. You...
Positions video and animated positions link
Don't just do the positions pay attention to what and how they are telling you to stroke. We do a different position every week. Some of them are hard but it is fun even if only for a moment. One of my faves is me, bent over, hands planted on the...
In the meantime learn this ...
I love this technique...I love how this feels. I hope this tutorial is ok to post. Don't show her how you do this. Don't teach her, so she can't teach married man.
http://www.youporn.com/watch/7696812/squirtinator-shows-you-how-to-make-her-squirt/
I can help you.
I am in ways like your wife in that it is very hard for me to cum. I will come back and help ya this weekend. I will teach you what I love. my favorite toys. etc...
What about you though? What about your pleasure. Let's get something for you too. I call BS on him being better...