It was recommended that I add more information about our dynamic. All three of us have been involved with BDSM for most of our adult lives.
Bob has been open to Trish playing with women, involved or not, as she is truly bi, and would be missing something emotionally and sexually without having the freedom to play with women.
The basics of our individual dynamics: Bob- 51 M, Daddy Dom, Trish - 53 F, bi, babygirl/little (former professional Dominatrix, has only ever been submissive with B), and June, - 38 F, bi, babygirl/little.
Bob and Trish have been together for 6 years, married for 2. We've co-dommed male and females since the beginning of our relationship and have had several FFM threesomes.
Trish established no other males touching her in the beginning. I was allowed to play with any female, as long as I used condoms and was honest.
We began discussing poly after meeting a female about 7 months ago and became interested. We met June in person at a lifestyle event two months ago. Her reputation was that she only played with females. In fact, most were shocked she played with me. It turned out we had talked to her through a BDSM site 6-7 months prior, but the timing had never worked to meet.
It occurred to us that June has health issues, which she is very upfront about. This has been discussed, as it affects her availability.
We had an extremely hot threesome. After talking, we discussed earlier conversations from the BDSM site. She brought up experiences with poly couples, going back to her early 20s. Her preference was to only play with males she was in a healthy relationship with.
After seeing each other a few additional times, Trish had a sleepover with June, Yes, they called it that, very cute. She spent the weekend at our home. They wanted to talk to me about moving forward as a throuple. I agreed, adding that I would also only be with them. It surprised both that I readily agreed to a closed relationship.
Although it has only been three months, it is the most natural relationship any of us has ever had. Our friends and family, and Trish, June and I say it is the happiest we have been. We have a very 1950ish, Daddy/babygirl dynamic, which works very well for us.
We are lucky to be in a position where of our all children are adults. We can afford to be open and out about who and what we are. We truly do love each other and love moving forward as a family.
Bob has been open to Trish playing with women, involved or not, as she is truly bi, and would be missing something emotionally and sexually without having the freedom to play with women.
The basics of our individual dynamics: Bob- 51 M, Daddy Dom, Trish - 53 F, bi, babygirl/little (former professional Dominatrix, has only ever been submissive with B), and June, - 38 F, bi, babygirl/little.
Bob and Trish have been together for 6 years, married for 2. We've co-dommed male and females since the beginning of our relationship and have had several FFM threesomes.
Trish established no other males touching her in the beginning. I was allowed to play with any female, as long as I used condoms and was honest.
We began discussing poly after meeting a female about 7 months ago and became interested. We met June in person at a lifestyle event two months ago. Her reputation was that she only played with females. In fact, most were shocked she played with me. It turned out we had talked to her through a BDSM site 6-7 months prior, but the timing had never worked to meet.
It occurred to us that June has health issues, which she is very upfront about. This has been discussed, as it affects her availability.
We had an extremely hot threesome. After talking, we discussed earlier conversations from the BDSM site. She brought up experiences with poly couples, going back to her early 20s. Her preference was to only play with males she was in a healthy relationship with.
After seeing each other a few additional times, Trish had a sleepover with June, Yes, they called it that, very cute. She spent the weekend at our home. They wanted to talk to me about moving forward as a throuple. I agreed, adding that I would also only be with them. It surprised both that I readily agreed to a closed relationship.
Although it has only been three months, it is the most natural relationship any of us has ever had. Our friends and family, and Trish, June and I say it is the happiest we have been. We have a very 1950ish, Daddy/babygirl dynamic, which works very well for us.
We are lucky to be in a position where of our all children are adults. We can afford to be open and out about who and what we are. We truly do love each other and love moving forward as a family.
