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Is it possible to become emotionally dependent on someone even if you don’t live with that person? My partner Ganga mentioned prior to meeting in person that’s what he likes about polyamory is it frees him from that. Last night he discussed with me how he’s feeling, over extended. It is 3...

Hello everyone! I’m Ali. I was here previously in 2013 to 2015, had just opened my marriage to poly and posted often. I’ll get my “journal” updated. 😊 life has been interesting through divorce, the few relationships I experienced since then to now. Let’s just say I ran from polyamory with my...

Heartache, worries and what not. We, Bassman our kids and their friends went camping on July 29th. A few days before that I made a post called "Feeling Trampled On". As I said in that, I was in a place I could not post under this username. It seemed like up until today the relatonship with...

I can't seem to articulate the sentences I need to say to hub regarding me writings on fetlife, my journey into submission and my description of sex with my new boyfriend. I realize what he read can be hard to swallow but sex with hub is more sensual and I don't want to change it, it is...

This is in two posts since it is so long: My spouse, bassman, has been a liar since he was a kid. Never disciplined for it, enabled quite a bit from his momma and this behavior has been a part of him ever since we first started dating almost 21 years ago this month. Note: I have forgiven all...

I am curious about the life of those who are parents but not married yet are poly and in multiple relationships. Were you married to your child's other parent? Were/are they mono or poly? How has life been with dating, possibly single parenting but maybe co-parenting, for you? Just trying to...

Sooo, wild orchid and the hunter have invited us over for a BBQ on Sunday. When the invites were happening yesterday I honestly thought it'd be postponed for a bit or wouldn't be so soon (original invite was for Saturday). Kids are invited too and the hunter's OSO (other significant other)...

I was writing in my blog about meeting my metamour's husband tomorrow who happens to be transitioning with his girlfriend (she's breaking up) and the thought crossed my mind I'm leary of being the "rebound". Is that even possible for us who are poly to rebound like a devastated mono break up...

My new boyfriend is 22 and I am almost 42. He is in the air force as a fuel system repair specialist. KW and I started chatting on OKC back in Aug and then I kind of stopped due to other potentials that were a bit older and at that time I wasn't sure of number of days we could meet but kept it...

;)I think I'm fine with it as long as DH lets me know when he gets there (MG his new OSO-other significant other-lives about 40 minutes away) so I don't worry something happened on the trip there. I don't need texts while he's there or even to tell me he's on his way home. Last night was his...

because the guy isn't tall enough? :o I know it might seem petty but honestly I have this "quirk" (must add this to blog) about men and it just doesn't seem fair to them even though I'm short (5'2). Once I meet a guy and they aren't 5'11 or taller, my physical attraction to them disappears...

Funny my truck driver parents gave me the CB handle of "little bit" when I was young. Definitely had an interesting upbringing before Kindergarten always being in a semi or staying with this or that relative during the summer. And now as a 41 year old woman, wanting to start a blog here for...

If dh and I had known two years ago we were polyamorous, I highly doubt we would have moved to our state (our old one has no laws against polyamory, adultery etc). This is what I found out about Idaho: Idaho: Bigamy is punishable by a fine of at least $2000 and/or jail time that may be up to 3...

Hi. I'm married (almost 18 years in Sept) & we are newbies. Currently we are involved with L whom i have sex with alone (rarely) & as a non-bi three sum with Hub. L is here for the sex only & i have feelings for L besides sexual. All three of us know this is short-term & hope to remain...

Hello. I have recently realized I am polyamorous through discussions my husband (of 18 years) & I have been having in the last year. I'm 41 & we have three children (15, 7 & 2). I signed up to learn more about polyamory, to ask questions about many aspects of it (like explaining it to the...