I was reading that yu must reassure them that they still have choices and that they are number one. It would be better if he participated in setting ground rules or boundaries. Strange that even though he is feeling insecure he will not give me sex at all. He could have stopped this very easily...
did you tell him you could decide the rules together for having another in the relationship? You could allow him to set the standards or boundaries then you could add to it? Is this even a possibility?
He chose reluctantly option number 2 which was to put up with me going outside the marriage for sex. Thank you so much Tom. Is there anything that would help you if I was your Wife? I am not picking up on you just what would you want to hear to make you feel comfort and loved.
He is kind of stubborn and just says he is no longer into sex. Any areas that could cause jealousy I want to tame any insecurities to get better acceptance.
At this point I have left no stone unturned. I have accepted the fact that I get no more sweet lovin' from him. I now need to try to...
I am hoping you can give me guidance to preserve my marriage but step out of the relationship for sex.
Therapist told me most ppl would kill for a relationship like mine but you have several areas that are a huge deal if those areas are important to you.(intimacy is huge for me) I have seen 2...