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I am in a DADT with husband who no longer wants sex and I have been upfront about having 2 mates from the beginning but had not followed through with sex with both mates. Another man would only have sex with me once every 2 months so I sought after someone who would fill in those gaps. All was...

Thanks Tom I should be fine in the long run not right now. He said he doesn't want to see me today. He said you want to shag me so close to shagging him? I feel rejected. I do have a slight glimmer of hope. I tend to spend well over an hour with fellatio alone, then riding him, then massage...

Thanks for the encouragement GalaGirl. I am very appreciative. ((hug))

Still unclear He was very nice kind of silent at times. Then he would perk up and joke around. He said "you can't help it, you are just a horny little girl" and then started laughing. I thought huh? I thanked him for being kind and making a joke out of it. I said so does this mean I am not...

This is what I was having a challenge with. I did not want to tell him this. Any thing else but the insanity of the heat of the moment. I was told to make sure I left those details out of the conversation. "He asked, do you want me inside? All I could think was please oh god yessss, please stick...

The letter to MM Here is my letter to MM "My Dearest MM, I did have sex with **** and I really ashamed to inform you that I lost my head and did not use a condom. I am horrified and can't believe after being so responsible I screwed up that bad and now I have to get re-tested for STD's. He was...

Part of my problem was also that we usually do fellatio first and second round and Intercourse 3rd round. We switched from fellatio in second round to him laying on me then him saying do you want it inside you?, then immediate penetration.:( I know goober behavior but that is what we did. Now...

Misquote in bold but I see what you mean. Thanks for your help Gala Girl just a slight misquote which really makes a huge difference. I will be confessing for sure. MM will know there was no condom. I was just reluctant to tell him how reckless I was. Oh believe me we learned a rough lesson.

Please don't misquote Quote: Should I tell my partners so they can decide if they want to get themselves tested? This is not my quote^^^^^ see my quote above in bold please. It is a given I am telling MM (the other knows he is the one who contributed) I was just trying to find a gentle way to...

Have not lost sight of telling him what I have done. Telling him is a given, posting what I have done on this site is part of my personal smack down. None of you can kick my butt as well as I already have but I did expect to be met with people who would chastise me for my actions. He or I...

doing great, and you? Little roller coaster ride but I will let go of the bar and raise arms high. :D

Soooo, apparently I went out in the desert got came back with a few arrows in my a$$ so you can learn from my mistake. I am upset with myself because I didn't put the condom on the bedside. I saw his cock and remember thinking, I don't want my saliva cleaned off I don't want the oil cleaned...

Hi Kdt, Just puttin' some luv on ur wall. :D

Are ya staying warm and well? Just checking in on ya and thought I would show some love on ur wall. :D

Thanks for the help Dust :D

Hi Fish Hope all is well. :) Any news for us? :D

he kept asking me when I would ask for sex. "Well, how often do you want sex?" I would get excited and think wow, I am gonna get sex. I would say -"once a week would be grand!!" It would never come and I said nothing then next quarter he would say "well how often do you want it? " I would say...

reassurance and loving acts I need to read this from time to time and understand that he also needs reassurance, acceptance and empathy for what he is going through. Sometimes it is hard when he raises his voice. I am not used to that but understand that his life feels out of control so he will...

how is H? Hey Girl, Dust and Fish are neat. Dust is right reach out to him he is one step ahead of us. :D How is H holding out? you be good to you!!

Progress Aww, a night away, oh boy that must have been hard on ya. I hope she came back in a loving mood and reassured you. I remember thinking my H was stepping out of the relationship for sex and how insecure and alone. I remember being left behind on ski trips. Just not fun cuz it is lonely.