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I think youve summed it up. and I am the opposite, lol, everyone knows what financial shite I am in ;) (but its getting better). By the way, I dont think that showing this thread to her will change anything. My boys mum wouldnt take any logic on board when any topic round the church was...

yes you are right, they dont know of course. but my question could have been rephrased to be "why doesnt she feel she is allowed to now ask the church for some help" or more specific "why do the people who give, get made to feel too ashamed to later ask for help when they need it"?

Wow, that is quite something, she is very brave at this point . Hope it goes well for you both.

thanks Gala girl Beyond a waiver, I would expect them to actually give some money back in this situation, shes obviously overstretched to help the church, why cant they give her some back ? I agree with you, it is likely a pretentious front she wants to maintain.

Like and.. Like and.. a Like ! Ive been through EXACTLY the same!! Its like my own story again, ;)

I never expected the money back. Its not about getting the money back. :) Its about opening my heart to who I thought was a friend and revealing some very personal stuff, and having that stuff thrown in my face about how weird I am, the moment I said no to sending more money. It is also about...

It's awful when changes affect the children, and it's difficult to get the right balance.

You are right, she has a lot of stuff going on. some of it might be me... but yeah, its her shit and shes turned on me as if I caused the pain. Im sure I did cause the pain when i said no to the THIRD round of money she asked for. And I know I will never get that money back now.... ho hum.

Whats really hurt me, is how much I shared... how much I told her. She threw it in my face telling me how weird I am. Anyway she contacted me again. I asked her to delete all my messages and she became upset and let loose with a whole lot of negative feedback again. and then blocked me...

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You have managed to verbalise, exactly my thoughts.... lol

Hi all This isnt poly per se, but.... I have a friend in need....she has been sending her church her 10%, but now has no cash for basics. She has asked me to help, and Ive sent her money twice now. This is the 3rd time she as asked now... So I asked her if she has asked the church if they...

Hi from Surrey, and welcome !

Im glad to see you have the courage to continue this journey based on the value you place on yourself!

l i k e !!!

like!!

Thats a better attitude :D

If youve ever been to a swingers club, (it appears that you havent), you will find out that is is VERY VERY respectful and there IS concern. Everyone goes there knowing that, and boundaries are respected, and "no" IS respected.

Anything to do with top gear is bad ! :mad::mad:

Have just been to Cairns for snorkelling !