Recent content by SweetSurrender

It can be overwhelming. I'm glad to help in any way possible, even if its just to talk. I am often the same way your husband is it would seem. At one point you think you can wait and be patient and then the next its like you might go crazy if you cannot just have things right now! lol. In my...

Perhaps hoop jumping was poor wording on my part. I guess what confuses me the most about it is that it looks like you are ready to begin dating. What are you adjusting to regarding his dating? Is it just because in the past he was not honest? Once you made the choice to stay together and commit...

Hi PPHer, I have enjoyed reading your husbands information and it is nice to see yours here now. Welcome! I am really new here as well. So far it has been a great resource for looking at things from a new perspective.

I can empathize with this part completely! Nearly ruined my marriage with something similar but it was not as emotionally connected. That really does surprise me! Not knowing either of you well and of course not having been in a similar real life scenario it almost would seem that she wants to...

Thanks Kevin, I think I might go ahead and start posting more of a blog on this site since then it will offer so much more information into what I have done in the past and the struggles I am up against today.

Thank you. It is always helpful when others provide their insight into things. I often wonder if I should have made this more of a "deal breaker" issue right from the start. I felt this way before so I am unsure of why I thought I would be able to suppress it. I guess my biggest hurdle at this...

Hi PPHim, What a great introduction! Mine does not nearly have as much information about who I am as a person. I think I have post envy. :D Really though, it is great that you and your wife are so open and able to communicate. I would think it would totally help the process of discovering what...

I agree. At this point he is adamant that he would not want to be physical with anyone else. Previously though, he has dabbled in emotional connections with people. I think given the right environment he may be more open than he realizes. It looks like with all the variety of people here it...

That is so great to hear. Does the bf have other relationships? I have read so much information on people here that I may have overlooked the details on your specific situation. Gives me home that perhaps one day, my dh would be open to learning and expressing in different ways.

Thank you for the request. I have enjoyed reading your posts so far.

Thank you both for the warm welcome. I have been reading so much over the past few days I am not even sure what is what anymore. :D Idealist - I just meant that the last mono relationship I attempted to make my true feelings known to did not end well. Sort of funny though, I did tell the...

Just reading you blog. It's great when I feel I connect with a writing style. Sorry about how it's going with T right now. ((hugs))

I enjoyed the television series but I have not read the books. This latest season was incredibly tough to get in to with some redeeming episodes in the middle. Perhaps it has just run its natural course and should end but it really is a guilty pleasure of mine. ;)

Now I am wondering if I put "lifestyle" in my intro. :rolleyes: I am pretty sure I attempted to remain as generalized as I could so I would not unknowingly make a mistake. I appreciate the information on how some do not like labels or being grouped together. When I read the linked information...

Hello. Just thought I would drop by and say that I am enjoying reading your posts.